BLACK AUTHOR SAYS ITS TIME TO DATE OUTSIDE THE RACE

THE FACTS
A new Washington Post piece interviews, Karyn Langhorne Folan, author of the new book, Don’t Bring Home a White Boy: And Other Notions That Keep Black Women From Dating Out.
THE SPIN
Black women have been hit pretty hard lately in the press. First, all of the mainstream media outlets pick up on reports of the difficulties of Black women to find a Black male counterpart to date.
Most recently, a controversial billboard campaign was launched targeting Black women in Atlanta – claiming that abortion has led to Black children becoming an endangered species.
And now, we’re back to Black women needing a man – since you’d need a man to get you pregnant to need a pro-life person attacking you anyhow.
Karyn Langhorne Folan has written a book advising Black women to think outside of their race to net a partner.
Naturally, she’s already gotten the clap back.
Here’s some of what she said in the profile:
She is not bashing all Black men or implying that all Black women are aiming for the altar. The writer, mom and Harvard-educated lawyer says that she is just offering a reasonable solution to the shortage of available Black men.
“Consider your options,” she says. Expand your horizons. Stop listening to your girlfriends. Forget about the brothers calling you a sellout. Get over those old images of slavery and stop blaming every White man for sins perpetrated by others.
“In short,” Folan says, “some Black women choose to demonize all White men rather than look objectively at the facts of our modern times, which are these: Some men, whatever their race, are bad for us. And the converse is true as well. Some men, whatever their race, are good for us.”
Now obviously those sort of statements will attract potential book buyers, but Black women have you grown tired of this discussion or is this something worth agonizing over in the press?
Moreover, how do you feel about being told who to date? Note that the author herself is a Black woman.
YOUR SPIN: What do you think, should Black women really look outside the race? Tell us here.
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