GABRIELLE UNION: I’M NO HOMEWRECKER
THE FACTS:
• In Essence, Gabrielle Union responds to criticism that she broke up Dwayne Wade’s marriage.
THE SPIN:
Though Gabby nor D.Wade have ever commented on their relationship, it’s pretty much common knowledge that these two are an item.
But with D. Wade still being married and going through a messy divorce, Gabby has caught many side-eyes and hisses for being with a married man. Constant rumors place her as the source of D.Wade’s break-up with his longtime partner, but in her cover story with Essence, Gabby tries to set the record straight.
When asked about being a home wrecker, she said, “The only marriage that I’ve ever been a part of destroying is my own, and it’s not my place to talk about anybody else’s.”
I’m going to let the comment speak for itself, because I don’t want to spark another “Why are you Black bloggers so doggone hateful?” from Gabby.
YOUR SPIN: What do you make of Gabrielle’s statement?
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(*The views contained herein are solely the views of their respective authors, and do not express the views of TV One. TV One does not take responsibility for their content.)
Before I say this, let me say that I love Gabrielle Union both in looks and acting talent. That being said, I really hope she had nothing to do with D. Wade’s marriage going up in smoke. In any case, she shouldn’t get involved with him until he’s divorced.
All in all, its her life.
This is new to me. I didn’t even know she was seeing D. Wade. If you get with a man or woman while they are married, (cheating) that is the way you will loose them. For her sake I hope it is not true.
I agree. What goes around comes back around.
Only she and the young man really know what is going on with them. It’s not my business what she is doing. She knows what is right and what is wrong. They are both grown and know the right thing to do.
For God sakes, I hope not Gabrielle should be able to find a man of her own,and not someone else leftovers.
what’s up with the photo Gabrielle? Want to show off the new booby job or just need to reveal the flesh?
Most beautiful women are just so insecure.
I hope she didn’t contribute to the break-up of his marriage. You can’t expect a relationship that resulted from cheating to be honest.
One would think that she should be able to find her own man; but the fact that she’s a beautiful, wealthy, intelligent and educated black woman, probably works against her where men are concerned, despite that she also appears to have a pleasant personality. You know, the apple at the top of the tree versus the ones on the ground kind of thing. Yet, I believe there’s a SINGLE (not lone, but unmarried) man out there who can appreciate all of who she is. She just needs to be patient and hold out for him.
(Oh, and Ms. Union, please button the blouse. You don’t have to resort to that to draw attention.)
Alex H, I’ve see a lot worse than that photo of Gabrielle so I don’t find it offensive at all.
To Rance and Karen C., I really hope this is just a sick rumor because a woman this talented and fine that has overcome so much in her personal life should not have to take another woman’s husband to find love! As Rance said, if this is true, someone should pull her to the side and tell her to wait and let a true single man come into her life. Also, isn’t D. Wade a basketball player from The Miami Heat?
This is just like the thing with Alicia Keys that was reported on a few months ago (her being involved with a married man). The most beautiful women seem to have the most issues! These two are our finest women and they are doing this? Man, I hope not but if they are, God help them because they need to ask themselves if this man will do that to his wife, what will he do with me? Granted, some men who cheated on their wife did marry and never cheated on the next woman but how many of those type of relationships end well? Almost none!
Gabby, if you aren’t, then stay strong and don’t get with him until he’s divorced so at least your relationship can start honestly. If so, then think about this. You’ve been through too much and are too good to be someone’s mistress.
Anyway, that’s my two cents on that.
What can you say…They never learn from other fools mistakes. Just another sad love song.
I believe it. She is a door knob anything for attention. Look at the seductive photo, she’s wrecking some woman marriage right now.
What a Hoe, is right I hate on all pretty girls and have nothing good to say about none. Most of them in the spot light of attention and are stuck on themselves and the more beautiful they are the more vendictive they are to other women.
So I will scandalize your name on this blogg.
Good Riddens.
To the last two posters, what are you? 12?! Go see a shrink or someone who cares! While I did speak my own opinions on this, I realize this is a gossip board so this story may not even be true (at least I hope not for Gabby’s sake)!
Sounds like to me you two got your own issues with women that have nothing to do with Gabrielle Union. To “WHAT A HO!”, photos don’t mean jack! Some of the worst people (both men and women I might add) had the more innocent, professional appearance. Take that college coach Rick Pitino for instance. He hardly looks like a ho but recently admitted he had an affair with a woman back in 2003!
As for “vicious one speaking”, you hate all pretty women eh? Well, that’s paintbrushing and sounds like jealousy. Get over it. You sound like a child who whines because they didn’t get their pony!
Sorry, I normally respect others opinions but juvenile responses like this makes my blood boil and PLEASE don’t even start with the “free speech” argument or how I can go somewhere else argument. If you put it up there, then you are asking for responses.
I’ve heard that she was, how do I say this nicely. A freak in the industry. Sleeping with everybody. That is just hearsay. But I do know this. In an article of Essence back in the day I remember reading her saying that she was raped while working at Payless when she was 19. Now dealing with the population I work with I do know that sexual assault victims tend to be a little more quick to give it up in some cases. I’m not saying this is true in her case. I’m just stating the facts. Anyway, who are we to judge. She has to answer for her actions IF she did break up that marriage.
Ronnie’s Middle, you’ve probably given one of the best posts I’ve seen on this subject. I must admit I had almost forgotten about her rape back when she was 19. That can lead to very promiscuous (sp?) behavior psychologically if not treated properly. Even after a victim recovers, he/she isn’t really the same and definitely needs a support system of people that really care about the victim.
Don’t get me wrong, that doesn’t excuse what she’s doing (if in fact that’s what she did) but I can see where an attack like that can leave someone scarred mentally.
I am not a doctor by the way but I have read where victims of sexual assault/rape tend to behave in that way.
Ervin,
You right! I do have issues with these so call beauty queens that are man made material, and the impact of pyschological damage that it cause on young core audiences of fans.
Now, Michele Obama thats beautiful, she is educated, classy and spiritual. She is a positive role model to young black women.
let it be recorded Gabrielle Reunion is a “hoe” cause she sell sex the image speaks for itself and she is a homewreker not a homemaker there is a difference. I’m not hating on her either and want nothing that she got cause what I have last forever.
My perspective!
To: Vicious speaking, I applaud you on what you said, that is what I was trying to say and I didn’t want to be attacked as a man saying it. Thats the point the picture is trying to make if you really take a closer look at it.
Thank you for putting it down.
Ervin, you are a chauvinist ass hoe! to condone this BITCH!!! deviant behavior. Being raped does not make it right to go around creeping with other women husbands. Gabby needs to go get therapy if she was a victim of rape or take part in helping other rape victims to overcome. This is not gossip her shit is out in the atmosphere.What goes on in the dark will come to the light.She is a big time hoe.
Well. This is all news to me. I had never seen pictures of her like this, either…didn’t know anything about her personal life except that she had been married and is a college graduate.
Just curious…who are these people who say she sleeps around, and how do they know?
She’s undercover, cause in the business she in this is how the game is played, either you give into whoring or left out in the cold, thats why she is taking all these provocative photos and running around with Dwayne Dade, cause it is going to bring her the attention to go to the next level of her acting career.
Gabrielle, is Selling herself to the next “highest bidder” because sex sells and she don’t have a heart to care about the other womens,because it is a cruel mean down and dirty business that she mastered in.
Got it!
Rance, Im with you on this. I have never heard of her being an industry (H). I have never heard of her dating D.Wade. I have never ever seen her in any clothing like that. From my understanding she is a nice girl. She was married to a Football player. She has been seen with Jamie Foxx, but I have never heard of her seeing D.Wade. I just hope it is not true.
I don’t know how this rumor was spread, I haven’t seen are heard this story no where else but TV One. So it’s still under suspect for me.
Summer, I happened to see her on the September issue of Essence magazine, and the discussion on this blog inspired me to pick it up. The article about her confirms that she and Wade are linked together and that he’s in the process of finalizing his divorce. I’m a little disappointed by that because I’ve always thought well of her despite knowing very little about her. I agree with Ervin, that she should have waited until Wade’s divorce was finalized before getting involved with him. Who knows, he and his wife may have been able to reconcile and work things out, had he not been distracted. He should have been allowed to go through that decision-making process by himself, especially since he and his wife have children together. But, I still don’t know the circumstances for his marital break-up, so I’m not ready to believe that she’s a skank.
Rance, i hate to hear that. she should have waited on the divorce, you know the saying what goes around comes around.
To Vicious, and I know this is off the subject, but no arguments on Michelle Obama! Definitely a classy woman!
To What A Hoe, show me where I was defending Gabby’s actions. If you would’ve bothered to read my first post, I even said she should’ve waited until they were divorced.
As for me being a chauvenist, you don’t know me so that’s rather dumb to say. Also, that’s rather insensitive for you to say “if she was raped” because its public record and well known. And I don’t recall saying that it gave her the right to mess with another woman’s husband, I was agreeing with an earlier post that said that rape victims often do exhibit this kind of behavior. It wasn’t giving Gabby an excuse at all, just a possible reason for her behavior. As for getting help, well that’s easy to say but most that are in that position often don’t go for help because they feel humiliated or that they will be blamed for the attack. I only hope you or someone you care about isn’t put in that same horrible position.
Plus, we don’t know if her relationship with D. Wade had anything to do with his marriage breakup. For all we know, the divorce may have been already going on when he hooked up with Gabby. That’s still no excuse on either party. You should always end one relationship before beginning another.
By the way, call me what you want. You just proved that was right and that you are 12! At least Vicious responded in a reasonable manner and seem to have some adult skills. You can disagree with someone without namecalling.
I hope this is untrue.
I had read she suffered a brutal attack when she was 19(she’s 36 now). I hope she received help after such an ordeal.
Besides that, like Rance, I have only read she was married and I believe now divorced. I can’t speak on anything else.
I will not support evil. Women or/a man that sleep with married men/women are heartless and cruel. That’s what is wrong with this evil world we support wrong as right and right as wrong and I’m not going to get all into to it about why? I speak so strongly against it. Being on this blog will get my message across to someone and it don’t have to be for everyone to agree with what I say here its all good and well. I don’t support the B.I.T.C.H Gabrielle Reunion actions whats so ever and any other woman or man that do is just as evil.
Number one,I don’t have any hate for Gabrielle I just hate what she is doing, so what if D.Wade and his wife are going through some martial problems and can’t seem to see eye to eye,because Gabriel is the other woman in the way,this is not just an attack towards Gabriel I feel D.wade is responsible too, but men always get the pat on the back and of course Women get disgrace and bad mouthed by other women and men her reputation gets ruined to no end no matter how much she come clean of what she’d done in her past it will always be reminded by somebody, the man is going to be more favored in cases like this by S.T.U.P.I.D BITCHES! like Gabriel who feed into the bullshit!!know that old saying “a man can lay down in the gutter and get himself cleaned up and get all kinds of respect and never be reminded of how he use to be a dog” woman it is different she will always be reminded of her past she is scorned for life.
Second of all, if his wife died and he was looking for a respectable woman to come and help him raise his children that’s another thing, but to have your extra marital affair openly without a care is just down right dirty ON BOTH OF THEM FILTHY BITCHES more her than him cause he will not suffer as much by other women or men.
Ervin, now do I Make myself clear and aldult enough for you to understand where I’m coming from. which I really don’t care what you have to “say” anyway I just call it out for what it is plane and simple H.O.E.S!!!
In addition, This was my point of view to all men and woman who are reading what I had post.
What a Hoe! you did express some very strong veiw points. I solely, do not agree with any woman or man that find that it is right to have public affairs on there spouses.
In a marriage or any relationship there is no aleatory (equal value) on one party, and ‘yes’ it always seem to be the woman who gets the worst end of the bargain when a marriage goes bad. This has been demonstrated in so many ways to us from Adam and Eve all the way to Mary Madelene with Jesus. I’m not going to preach the “Gospel” here, but it is truth to what you have said and in however you said it. I just wanted to give you my support.
I hope, personally that this story on Gabrielle and Dwayne Dade is not true. If it is than him and her both deserve every name that they have been called.
I’am trying to stay a christian woman, I had my share of heartaches in realationships out in the world and I come to except “Jesus” who do give you so much more peace. Now, I am not shoving religion on this site to anyone,but I must lift up our Lord and savior and someone might need to hear and know this.
Folks do have their choices either they can go with the World which don’t care nothing about you being that it is evil and destructive and will run you old tired and weary from relationship to relationship, or you can take that straight and narrow path which is hard, but you will learn how to live and have life more abundantly …and you may have to settle for a relationship alone.
God bless you all.
What a Hoe, are you Mrs. Wade? You seem to be taking this matter very personally, and your writings are unusually emotional for someone who supposedly doesn’t know these people. If you are Dwayne Wade’s wife or someone close to her, then that explains everything. You have first-hand knowledge of the situation, and the rest of us don’t. If you are her, then you have every right to be mad at Gabrielle Union. I mean, you say you don’t hate her, so what names typed in capital letters would you call her if you did? I can’t imagine where there’s room to escalate from “bitch” and “hoe”.
You said anyone who supports her actions is equally evil. Who? Where is that comment in support of cheating? I went back and read the comments, and I don’t see that. Do you believe that anyone who is not trashing her condones cheating? If so, then wow; that’s quite a leap.
Rance: I’m not Dwayne’s wife, but I am a relative of hers. This is all I’m going to tell you and all the rest.
I get it. Thanks for clarifying.
Even so What A Hoe, just because we aren’t slamming Gabby doesn’t mean we support what she’s doing. In fact, myself, Summer and Rance have all pointed out that she should’ve waited until the divorce was final before starting any relationship with this man.
If you are related to Mrs. Wade, then your emotion is understandable. Still, don’t judge the rest of us just because we aren’t trashing her. Calling her, me or anyone else names doesn’t sound very “Christian” to me nor does it help the situation. All of our behinds stink on some level when it comes down to it.
I will say I did go back and read your recent response and I will say at least you pointed out D. Wade’s fault in all of this as well. Too many times, the woman is taken to task but almost never the man. If this is what lead to his divorce, then he is just as guilty as she is. If he wanted Gabby, he should’ve been man enough to face his wife and divorce her first before doing anything with Mr. Union.
D. Wade, if in fact he had an affair (again, I don’t know this for a fact), should head history in both sports and entertainment of those that have gone this path. Those relationships almost never work out! Most end badly and some end tragically. Two examples are Angelia Jolie/Brad Pitt and The Benoits. Granted, Jolie/Pitt are still together but I don’t see that relationship lasting 10 years from now because of the way it started. The relationship of Chris and Nancy started dishonestly because both were married at the time they met and many rumored that one or the other were having an affair which may have led to that murder-suicide two years ago.
My point is if any of this is true, D. Wade should pay attention to history. He can also take it from me that having an affair is nothing but trouble and will leave you alone or worse! As for Gabby, if she is responsible, life has a way of paying people back.
On that last part, yes, at one time I was messing with women both single and attached. I know what I am talking about when I say that it was fun for awhile but ultimately, it leaves you alone, soiled and dishonored.
Thankfully, I ended that behavior before any real damage was done. There will be those that will say “you shouldn’t have done it in the first place.” Well, to that I say “no sh*t sherlock.” At least I woke up and got out in time.
Anyway, I am sure if any real wrongdoing was done, it will come to light.
What a Hoe, what’s wrong with this evil world is people that have a cold heart and can’t forgive. Even if you are related to D.Wade in any way. It’s still not right for you to have so much hate. I don’t know if you are calling yourself a Christian. If you are right now your light is not shinning. Your name is What a Hoe. Then you have used the B word quited a bit and other words that are not Christian like.
See the thing with some Christian is they hate one sin, but not the other ones that fit them. I think if you were going to represent Mrs. Wade you should have come out like a few of us said. We dont respect the fact that she was seeing Wade while he was married. All that hate is just not right. You are know better than her. She messing around with married men, and you calling people that is not bashing her Evil.
You don’t know anyone of us on this page just as we dont know for sure what happen with D.Wade and his wife. I can see her being angry, but you are a little bit to angry. Plus there is three sides to the story. His, Hers and the Truth. So just calm down and Pray for everyone that is involved.
I really don’t think Gabby is going to lose any work over this. She is not the first actress that did this and she probably want be the last.
Try and spit out some better knowledge that’s not so offensive to people that agree with you, and for those you are trying to reach. Telling people they are evil because they don’t think like you is not going to make people understand your point. Most of the people now that i read back said she was wrong, so who were you talking to or calling out on this page?
Good point Summer. Again, I don’t condone what Gabby is doing (if in fact that’s what she’s doing) but she isn’t the first actress to do so (see Angelia Jolie) and she won’t be the last.
What a hoe: is my title to this discussion to catch viewers attention.
Bitch: is a discription of the character in the topic of the discussion.
Now,let me point out something to all readers and all the questions that are being asked here.
Gabrielle Union, no is not the first actress to do this and probably won’t be the last,but right now she is doing it and she’s the product of this discussion.
I’m defending the wife who is not at this time able to speak for herself, with her heart filled with emotional grief by all this and if any woman have been where she is right now will find it in their heart to understand what she is feeling at this time. Thats why I am fighting this battle for her as it could be my marriage.
It’s never the man to live with the emotional scars, its always the woman on both ends to carry the weight every time something something like this happens. We see it now that Gabrielle is on her “high profile” pedestal on destroying someone marriage. Gabrielle stated that ” the only marriage she is responsible for destroying is her own, and not her place to talk of anyone else marriage” what is that suppose to mean? Well I’m going to tell you what it means, it’s like this folks, ’someone hurt her marriage and now she is going into another womans marriage to destroy hers.’Those were the words coming from Ms.Union not mines.
Summer and Ervin, you two questioned my religion belief ,and I’m going to leave you with this “on this rock Christ has built my church”.
What a Hoe, I understand that when someone you love is hurting, you also hurt as much or more. But, I would like to offer you some practical food for thought: no matter how unjust, unfair, and downright wrong someone has been toward you or your relative, trashing that person NEVER, ever works the way you hope it will. It doesn’t make others hate that person and shun them for being a bad person. It doesn’t make the person you’re trashing feel guilty or realize the error of their ways. In fact, it tends to have the undesired effect of rallying support for them. This is the reason: while you go around calling her every name you can think of, she is going on about her business and not thinking about you. When a rock is thrown, people naturally turn to the direction from which the rock came, meaning that as long as you go around doing this, YOU will be perceived as the troublemaker, and even after everyone knows why you’re saying those things, they’ll just dismiss you as bitter if you can’t seem to stop.
This is how it happened with the Jennifer/Brad/Angelina situation. Jennifer Anniston was treated very shabbily in that, and it seemed that even the media participated in rubbing her face in the new relationship between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. But, because Jennifer went around publicly talking about Angelina Jolie for so long, public sympathy shifted toward Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie because they weren’t making retaliatory comments.
But, Ervin said something that I hope will offer you some comfort. He basically said that relationships that start that way don’t prosper. I would be surprised if Brad Pitt ever married Angelina Jolie. I didn’t expect that he would marry her when he and Jennifer Anniston divorced, and really don’t see that happening, ever. Here’s the rub: I don’t care how independent or unsentimental a woman may be, I don’t believe she has a man’s baby without some hope that the relationship will culminate in her becoming his wife.
My ex-husband’s best friend, whom I’ll call ‘Larry’, married his high school sweetheart. At some point during his marriage, he started an affair with an ex-girlfriend from high school, whom he’d dated before he met his wife. The woman became pregnant and had the baby, which was the straw that ended his marriage after sixteen years. Now, one would think that if the woman was worth the destruction of his marriage, that she would be “the one”, right? No, after their divorce, he found himself a new girlfriend and they moved in together. The ex-girlfriend didn’t get the man she’d been pining after all those years, and he ended up having to pay child support to two women. So, whether you want to call it reaping what is sown, Karma, just desserts or whatever, life has a way of balancing itself out.
If you need to get things off your chest where Gabrielle Union and Dwayne Wade concerned, then express yourself within your inner circle, or talk to a professional. But don’t do it this way. It will only backfire. Also, as the relative, don’t be angrier about it than the wife and pick trouble with the new girlfriend. Your actions will only serve to throw fuel on an already volatile situation.
What a Hoe, according to the articles D.Wade and his wife had been seperated for a year or more and they had been having problems. It appears the two were not even living together. So Im sure if she wants to speak out about this divorce is not keeping her from speaking out. Maybe she choose not to because she know she is going to be well taken care of and her problems are not Gabby’s problems because I’m sure he will not stop and guess what neither will Gabby she will find someone else. So you are not hurting her by calling her a B, you are not the first and you are not going to be the last.
Please don’t use scriptures from the bible to justify your hate, because those words are not to be messed with.
A Christian don’t even need to speak on someone else affairs, because she knows that God is the one that will take care of all parties involved. He don’t need your help. In time they all will get whats coming to them. Cursing and using negative titles to attract attention trying to be a Christian is a hindrance to someone that maybe considering giving their lives to Christ. If everyone was like you making excuses to why you used such harsh words then you can understand why the world is in such a state.
Your church is something I would not want to associate myself with. You need to find some new rocks and start building on a new church. So please don’t respond to me. You are only making matters worse for those that do believe. Just put a lid on it
Correction: Maybe she choose not to speak out, because she know she will be well taken care of. Her problems she had with Wade are now Gabby’s problems.
Rance, Summer and Ervin,PLEASE READ THE TEXT AND STOP LOOKING AT THE OUTLINES OF THINGS. I AM A WITNESS TO WHAT WENT ON WITH THIS MARRIAGE NONE OF YOU WERE THERE YOU ARE ONLY GETTING THE “HEAR SAY”.
SUMMER, I DID NOT GIVE YOU ANY IMPRESSION THAT I GO TO ANY CHURCH. WHAT I DID SAY IS “ON THIS ROCK CHRIST BUILD MY CHURCH” DUMB ASS!!!
I will no longer take part in this topic of discussion to entertain you with this story, so by you responding you will only be talking among yourselves. Good bye!!!
Christ and D.A in the same sentence. I don’t think Christ built a church on her rock.
What a Hoe, you too are a third party. Even if you’re her mom, sister or aunt, you too, only know the side of the story you’re hearing. If you were always there to know the whole story, then their lack of privacy may have contributed to their problems.
One other thing you might want to consider, you could end up being sued for slander. The thing about a slander suit, is that the person who files suit doesn’t have to be innocent, they just have to be able to prove that you have been saying things that are harmful to their reputation. If it’s worth all that to you, then more power to you.
Summer and Rance, let me say I am not exactly a bible-thumping Christian but I do go to church from time to time and the people there have always greated me warmly and offered emotional support.
Believe me, those people would not approve of the way What A Hoe is conducting herself. Using Christ and cussing in the same sentence? I know drunks that would know better than that. I’m no expert on the Bible but I don’t think Christ would build a church on THAT rock.
If you really are gone What A Hoe, good riddance! If you are kin to D. Wade’s wife, you aren’t doing her any favors by doing this. If anything, you are making it worse! And from what Summer said, D. Wade and his wife haven’t been together in awhile. The only crime I see that Gabrielle is guity of is getting with a married man before he’s divorce. There is no proof she had anything to do with the breakup. When I see that, then I’ll probably turn on her. Until then, I won’t call her a homewrecker. Rather, she’s being foolish.
And Rance, you bring up an excellent point. There is such a thing as slander and if someone were to see this, I am sure they have people that can trace computers so they can find you What A Hoe.
I wouldn’t worry about Mrs. Wade. If anything, she’ll have the last laugh.
Yeah, I think Mrs. Wade will be alright. She’ll hurt for a while, and eventually she’ll heal. But, you’re right, if she has family members meddling like this, then they were probably part of the problem. When you’re going through something like this, you need people around you who encourage you to move forward and take positive actions. No one needs help feeling down.
What a hoe, you should not use God name in vain, even if you are trying to make a valid point to other viewers.
I pray your strength in the Lord that God will deliver you from whatever burdens your heart.
I know you are defending a friend or (relative),but using language that is harmful to others and putting “Christ” in it is out right wrong.
I know when we are hurting or someone has hurt someone who is dear to us we are full of rage to no end, and not trying to look at the positive side of things,and like I shared with you in one of my post that I support your views in whatever way that you said it, but others are not going to accept it in the mannerism that it was expressed.
Maybe, God is calling You Mrs.Wade or
Gabriel Union into his ministry or even Mr.Dwayne himself and himuliation for some folks is what it takes to get them there. There is room at the cross for all us sinners. Before, Peter who was one of Christ “disciples’ was called into Christ ministry he was a cussing, foul mouthed person.
So,I leave you with this saying be encourage by the “word of God” and I pray that all things will work for good according, to Gods plans and purpose in you and your love ones lives.
Peace and Blessing,
Karen C., nothing but love on this end. As I said, I am not exactly the Bible-toting type BUT I can respect any Christian that can express their Godly views without being condocending.
Plus, your tone comes off as strong but loving rather than judging. I’ve noticed that with all your posts especially on this subject. I only hope “What A Hoe” reads what you have to say and learns from your example. Have a nice day!
I don’t understand why a relative would be on the internet engaging (with strangers) in this horrible conversation about there so call relative unfaithful marriage.
If WAH is a relative, I am sure Mrs. D Wade would not appreciate WAH talking about her personal problems with everyone. I know I wouldn’t. I don’t care if you are supporting me, don’t discuss my business. I am sure she would not want anyone discussing her marriage, especially to strangers. Also, I am sure she would not want any relative to feed into this discussion. That’s not cool.
I am related to a former NBA player, and I have two cousins in the NFL, but I am going to tell you, I am not that close to them now, and if I read something about there lives, I would not comment. Because, what is the point? People are going to have there opinions no matter what I say. It’s worthless to go on, and on, and on about anything that is said. All you have to do is be there for them, if it’s that serious to you. Don’t worry what other people have to say. If I need to be there for my cousins then I will be there, but I don’t have to get into discussions with strangers to show my support for them. Plus, I’m not that close to them anymore. I don’t know what they are doing. I don’t know if the rumor is true or not. So getting mad over it, just because I am related, makes no sense.
In my opinion the kitchen got to hot for her, so she had to make up something to get her point across, “Wait, I am relative!” LOL
So what!
I was just reading all your comments and just laughing. Some of you were out of control, telling all your business. I guess some felt that if you get into your personal business maybe everyone would understand your point. It should not be that serious. I don’t think you have to tell your business to be understood. If people agree with you fine, if not that that fine too.
Anyway, this topic is really sad and horrible….
They both adults if she came btween him and his wife he let that happen
Well I dont think she broke up his marriage it always take two to trangle
Wow! You all have made some good points. Mrs. Wade must truly be heartbroken. My little two cents would be Mr. Wade was the problem here. He should have resisted the temptation whether it was with Ms. Union or any other woman until he resolved his own issues. I would also think that being married to anyone in the sports/entertainment industry is difficult. As a woman you must have thick skin in order to survive. History has definitely shown us that.
The only thing I can say is, if it’s true that she is the reason or cause for what has taken place in D Wade’s marriage, she will have to answer for her actions before a higher judge-God. Like my great grandma would say, if this is how she got him, she will lose him the same way. You can’t expect for something good to come out of some one else’s pain. The main problem out their is these unmarried women need to stop catering to these married men, because once you get involved with a married man or even a man who is in a relationship you are basically telling him it’s ok to behave the way he does, and those women out their who said they get involve with a married man because they don’t want commitment, and it’s easier that way, stop fooling yourself because you too will have to answer to God. I’m sure there are men out there who aren’t looking for a commitment either, do yourself a favor and find one leave married men alone and respect the “ring” and the constitution of marriage. Be careful with who and what your willing to accept in your life. Everyone isn’t entitled to a front row of your life!! Sister’s stop settling for less, value yourself more. You only get what you give out.
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Wrong is wrong, we need to stop making excusses and calling wrong right or that is just the way it is!! Hell has enlarged its self for those who think wrong is right and they act on it. No further discussion needed. Just live right.